The hardest thing to do as a Mistress is trying to read what someone wants, asking for humiliation or domination can mean so many things to different people, when arranging a session it is always best to be as clear as you can, What does humiliation mean to you, being dressed up in panties and hold-ups, small penis humiliation, being bent over and spanked, are there “no go” areas for you that you dont want the Mistress to use?  Marks from CP sessions are another common one, can you have them or not, is it important you go home totally mark free?  I have had people call wanting a hard caning, only to ask them about marks and tell me they can’t have any, and how terrible another Mistress was by marking them! we are not psychics.  Being honest and clear about what you want and don’t want is so important.  Also if there are specific things you want in a session, always check that the Mistress concerned does all those things when you book, it gets so frustrating when people turn up with a list of things they want which is totally different to what was discussed on the phone and you can’t do half of whats on the list, or are not prepared for it.

This week has gone very well, a nice start to the month, my new leather strap that hardly marks has been used to death until my wrist ached, I stood on someone with 5 inch stiletto heels and felt very cruel doing it, being 5ft9 tall, please feel free to suggest new things in sessions I am always trying to come up with new ideas, the latest being dressed in my suit as the cruel lady boss.


Well it’s the last day of what I think is the coldest month of the year, next month is a good one for me, as Easter Sunday falls on March 31st (Chocofest as I like to call it)  I am not a religious person in any way, but I love all the chocolate eggs that come out and always buy my self something outrageous with ultra thick milk chocolate, lots of decadent truffles, preferably with caramel and nuts and no alcohol, I have already been looking online trying to choose, I can’t buy it too early otherwise I will just eat it all too quickly.  I recently ordered from Zotter online, they are an Austrian chocolate company who produce amazing chocolate bars, my favourite being the butter caramel one (big online order being placed next week for myself, thats one thing I love about the internet, you can buy things from abroad so easily, what amazed me even more was how cheap it was and you could track the order travelling through Austria and Germany down to the towns it was scanned through to here via the Austrian post service, puts our Post Office to shame.

I now have my new phone, apologies to anyone who called me and couldn’t get through or I could not hear properly, but all is sorted out now.

I have had quite a few people ask me about financial slavery/being my money piggy, does it exist? they see blogs and girls talking about it and dont get it.  Well you are not the only ones, neither do I!  I get approached on a monthly basis by people who want to do it, and I just think it’s silly.  Who really is going to shower me with money and gifts for nothing, the answer is no one, not that I would want them to anyway.  Most of these girls seem to end up spending hours emailing and chatting to these guys only to get nothing, or a £20 mobile phone top up for their time and trouble.   I dont entertain these people and ignore them, if anyone mentions it to me they go on my idiot list.

Anyway, I am looking forward to next month, slightly warmer weather, lots of chocolate, and more sessions.


Well my 3 and a bit year old phone is on the way out, I was taking calls and some people sounded like they were whispering, so I am using an old phone today, and the new one will arrive tomorrow.  I only like to replace things when they die, I dont see the need to have the lastest thing. I remember getting my first mobile, mono screen, no colour and it just made calls! shock horror.  What gets me is the old phones, like my first one seemed to last longer than the smart phones.

A few have asked me why I dont have an email address anymore on my website, the problem was too many people trying to book me same day via it expecting the email to be instant, despite a note next to the email to say I never saw the mail in time and no bookings via email, I had people expecting me to see the mail within the hour so they could come over.  It drove me so mad I took the email off forcing people to call, I think this shows my naturally dominant nature, do what I say or else, I am nice, honest, just bossy when it comes to things like that.

Some nice sessions over the last few days, in one I pounded someone so hard up the ass my abs ached the next day, not that many can take it that hard though, most sessions with it are quite gentle, after a bit of experience I find people can take more, as well as larger.  Also a session with someone who could tolerate a really hard caning, his skin didn’t break it was like leather, years of practice apparently, he then had to drive to Heathrow Airport and sit on a 2 hour flight home on a nice warm freshly caned bum.  I have also been doing E-Stim quiz sessions, get the answer wrong and you get one hell of a shock, problem is I do tend to choose really awkward difficult questions

I was amazed this week by someone coming for a session with their own undies to wear, that cost a huge amount of money, La Perla, I could not believe it when he told me the price.  Most people coming to see me go to Primark or similar places if it’s just to wear in a session, but the lingerie he bought was incredible, you could see just by looking at it that it was very expensive, I think I would feel ill if I spent that much, and I don’t buy the cheap stuff, the average set I buy costs around £100 as I have a bit of an underwear fetish, maybe if I win the lottery one day I might just treat myself.


I am not a big fan of this month as it’s when the weather tends to be the worst of the year, so far so good though, there are even a few bulbs coming out in my garden.The start of this month has been really busy, I have been on the internet today ordering more things, lots of latex gloves as I get through so many, some new toys, more electrodes for my E-Stim

My new cane, strap and tawse have had lots of use and the new strap does not seem to mark so a great new toy for those who can’t have a trace of marks on them when they leave. The breast forms I bought last month work very well in the G cup bra I have bought, especially if I put a pink  T-shirt on my victim, I dressed someone up like that this week and they looked very real, and made me feel very flat chested.

I have had a few new people come and see me and say how they get scared of visiting a pro domme for the first time and find it hard to choose, which is perfectly natural, to avoid problems I recommend the following

1 Does her website look professional and does she clearly state what she will and won’t do on it?

2 Is there a phone number?, you can really get a feel for someone talking to them on the phone, you can ask questions and see if you think you will get on, if you are too scared to call then you are probably not ready to book a session and meet her in real life. It will also prove she does exist and is not a scam, but whatever you do, dont ask questions that are clearly answered on the website, I know from experience this gets really annoying.

I try and make people feel relaxed, the room is always warm enough and I carefully check what someone is into before I start the session, I never go over someone’s limits, that way we all enjoy it.  It’s all very well asking a mistress to do what ever she likes, but if that is heavy CP which will leave marks, that might not be your idea of fun, so communication is VERY important. Rose

Thank goodness I live in a town, snow really is not an issue if you do, all the main roads are clear, I can walk to the town centre in 10 minutes and get to the railway station in another 10.  I dont get it when people dont go out in it, unless their disabled, elderly or live in a cut off rural area, just put a warm coat and scarf/boots on and there is no problem.  Yesterday I got my post on time and couriers arrived with things I had ordered on the internet again on time.

My new leather strap/tawse arrived this week, I bought them in a lighter leather than normal as they mark less and hurt less, for people who come to see me that cant take anything too hard.  I also got a new cane which I am very happy with.  They have already had use this week and went down well.


I thought it was a full moon yesterday, lots of people calling asking how to book me and my working hours, when I have the worlds easiest booking system and availability written out on my website.  My phone has a call history and most of the callers asking how to book me had called me before to ask me this many times.  I think some people dont want a session, but just want to go through the motions of talking about it.  Just to make it clear, my booking info is here, the easiest way to describe it is, “on the day via the phone”.



Well the breast forms have arrived this week, I may have to buy another bra to take them as they are F cups, great for giving my cross-dressers a more feminine figure. Thank you to the person who sent me the Lindt box of chocolates, they were absolutely delicious, I had not tried them before, the box lasted just 2 days!  Also thanks to a regular client of mine for sending me a  postcard from Jamaica telling me how hot and sunny it is there and how much you are enjoying yourself, you have succeeded in making me very jealous.

They are all predicting snow, and they annoying thing is every time I look at the weather forecast, it changes, last night there was virtually no chance, then this morning 80% chance on Sunday, then checking just now, it’s upto 17% on both Sat/Sun and 80% Monday, I like to know about things like this in advance, when a snowflake falls my phone goes dead.




I have bought some new things for sessions this month, due to arrive in the next few days, a new cane, 2 new leather straps for sessions from Quality Control who make the highest quality equipment I have ever used, and this evening will be ordering some silicone breast forms for my crossdressers.

It was a great December, some nice sessions, then some time off, rare for me, I am one of those people who get bored if I am not doing something.  Thanks to all the people who bought me chocolates I still have lots left!  The lingerie sales online were a disaster for me this year, nothing in my size, or a bra in my size and no matching panties, I will have to wait till they all get new stock in so I can buy myself something new   even the new stock was all sold out at all the online stores I looked in, I must be a very popular size.

I have had people calling me asking if I am around this week, and they answer is yes, I am back to normal now and sessioning, so feel free to give me a call.